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People always have expectations of the opposite sex/ future partner. Now, put yourself in the opposite gender ( eg : If you're a male, think like a female and vice versa) Next, think of the traits your partner should have. ( Since you're a female now, images the traits your boyfriend should have) Once you have listed those traits, remove all above instructions and look back at yourself. Does those traits match you in anyway ? If yes, you have done well. If not, why expect something you're not even close to achieving ?
The above may seem confusing for those with IQ below 60. Try again with a friend whose IQ exceeds the above mentioned limit. If all fails, follow the case study below :
Case study 1 :
1. You are a male. Now be a female .
2. Since your a female, state your expectations of your bf
3. Once listed, return to normal self
4. Evaluate self.
5. Do those expectation describe you ?
6. Self test over. Repeat if neccesary.
Case study 2 :
1. Your a female. Now....
2. Repeat above steps.
If you are going to expect something, your partner is going to do the same. Expectations of the opposite sex is norm, but imposing upon them is a mistake.
p/s : Leave a comment assuming none of you guys understand what i'm trying to say, then I may have to resort to diagrams. Again, it may seem confusing to those with IQ below 60. Don't feel preassured.
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