Shereen - Yes love is expensive for a guy. I have to say most gals have some expectations from their boyfrens. But guys, its not necessary to get expensive stuffs, any hand made or cheap sweet things are also fine, its the thought that matters to a gal, not the amount of money u spend on it(most of them, not all).Love is not about giving things or expecting for things. It is about giving love, its a feeling that one has for only that one person. Love should not have conditions, if they do, they are not called love. But of course spending ur parents money on someone else is to me called stupidity. Love should not come because of religion, race, money, or other things. It should come from the bottom of your heart. Love the person for who they are.
Not necessary to get expensive stuff ? If I get her something from Petaling Street the first thing to hit her mind would be " Bloody cheapskate bastard...it this how much I'm worth to you. Petaling Street ? We are done.".
It's true the thought matters but for every occasion ? Assuming its Valentine's Day (V.D) and you are broke though you have been planning for that special nite 2 months back. 3 days before V.D, you meet in an accident and bla bla bla. PoKaI. Do you think the girl is gonna say " It's okie sayang, your car is more important. We don't celebrate also can. After all it's only V.D ".
As far as I know some girls love to celebrate their :
1st week anniversary
1st month anniversary
3rd month anniversary
6th month anniversary
then the 1st year anniversary.
In between your stuck with her birthday , your birthday, her mom's, her dad's, ur........
That's not all, in between all these happy occasions you end up spending to patch things up. Sei lor !!
Of course love is not about money. It's about what comes along with it. Have you realised that people are perfectly fine till they couple up. You see that they can't walk straight without holding hands and leaning on each other. Talk about 'being supportive' and ' lending a hand'.
Love 'should' not have conditions. Mine has. What you want me to do ? Betray my parents so I can live 'happily' ever after ?
p/s : I may not be 100% right about the above statements but I'm pretty sure I pass the 93.75% mark.
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What was your love condition anyway?
i agree wif ya, Murali :)
At 1st, yeah.. we do think that gifts are not important n all, i mean small gifts are enuff to show the love.but as the days go by, ur expectations get bigger as well as ur needs.Ppl change.situations change.
My advice is... if u wana be in a relationship, u better be ready fer the ride of ur life!
Take care!
i wonder y ur so pessimistic bout love...if the person really loves u for who u r....the matter of money will never come up...at the end of the day...it all boils down to how true ur love is...but sad to say...nowadays...the word love is often misused...love...a divine feeling or a misused tragedy...only time will tell..until then...heads up..*wink*
like i said earlier..maybe i am pessimistic about love...what i'm trying to say is money is a factor while in love...how can u have a partner when u can't afford to take her out for dinner, no credit to spend on her because you're all broke and ur dad ain't that rich after all...
i truely agree with searchingsoul "if the person really loves u for who u r....the matter of money will never come up". murali, please grow up. hei if the gal likes you then she will be concern abt the accident not the V.D. And you dun hv to celebrate V.D on that day, hv a post thingy la. and please, a movie is not too bad rite, you think thats cheap ? Sorry to say, but you have a typical mind where you think guys always spend for gals. the truth, these days even guys go after rich gals, so that the gal will spend the money. So please you are no where 93.75% true. Stop crapping and be practical
aight shereen..ur absolutely right..there is sumthin called saving..believe in half-half policy...financial problems in r/ships arise when there's no communication...there are gold diggers out there but not all gals are..its not a matter of whose father is rich or not...its more of a matter of choosing the right person...in a proper relationship..at the end of the day...its not how much money u spent tht counts...its how much time n love u spared that counts!.
well..i've heard enough of ideal girls..but how many ideal girls are out there ? and ...i will personally issue a statement latest by tonite. heheh
ideal.....no one's talkin bout ideal gals here...ideal gals..would not get angry...let u do n e thing u want and would never merajuk...the way i see it murali....u can either leave it,hide under the bed or work through the knots!
Shereen,maybe you didn't notice,but the topic was love,relationship etc..etc..etc..not "comment-on-murali" so stick to the topic!
-MASTUR-dBATER
A comment fer the comments :
It's easier said than done... ;)
I think, when it comes to love, you wouldn't even count the money you spend (on the people you love). If my parents were to have done that, I have no idea where I would be right now (on the streets, maybe?). :P
Coming back to your post, money is equally important in a relationship - and it's not because you have to have some in order to impress a girl. If a girl that you're in love with expects you to buy stuff for her all the time, I wouldn't really recommend you to stay longer with her in the relationship. You're just wasting time and money.
After all, you have to meet few wrong ones before finding the right one.
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