People usually talk about frenship between 2 genders (male & female). How many people noticed that boys and gurls actually have frens and make frens different ways ? I think i do and hopefully i'll be able to convince my readers **heheheh** (written for the Moon).
Boys (as i have noticed) tend to bond as in groups. Lets just say A & B are frens. They meet C and the gang.Now if everything goes okie the gang now consist of A, B, C and the gang.Boys make frens thru sports, performance, studies and so on. When they fight, most of the time it's only gonna involve 2 or maybe 3 people (must need middle man). Guys tend to hang out in larger groups of 4 and above.
On the other hand, gurls are quite unique (the way they make/break frens) .If let say A is not excepted by the group, A now in turn searches for another person to be with.It's like " I've got life even if it's not with u people "
e.g. D is person who is nice, and straight(lurus bendul). Yet she not really the cream of her gang, at times she all alone. What do u expect D to do ? Yes ..she find another fren..the only thing is this fren(R) is the total opposite and is actually making holes in her wallet. R has a history of borrowing money from people and not returning them.
Somehow gurls find comfort in different ways and different needs. Girls need frens no matter how bad the fren may be, they just need companions. Gurls fight in gangs (separate groups) . It's like if the gang has 10 people and A&B fights ( 4 will support A and the other 4 with B).
What ever i said above might have been confusing but this is how i have been seeing it over the years. Maybe my experience is not complete.
p/s : i would always fight with another boy because with gurls there's always gonna be bitching about YOU !!
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