Friday, October 28, 2005

Occuring rubbish

Regarding this article, I personally think we should stop getting allowance the moment we start work or when the person realises himself the financial constrain of the family. Assuming we are unable to get work not due to negligence or rather lack of oppurtunity , then it is fine to go ahead and receive the allowance but if there is no effort from the younger generation, by all means the allowance would have to stop. Anything more would be spoiling the person. On another matter, assuming the family is hard to do and would certainly gain by using some extra income, then by working yourself and not getting the allowance from your dad is certainly going to lighten his burden. All this boils down to awareness.

On another matter, it's certainly true parents are treating their kids like some trump card or winning material. People are using kids to measure how well they are doing in life. How a child behaves certainly reflects on how well the child has been brought up but how intelligent ? That's another matter totally. Sending the kids for tuition or yoga at the age of 3-4 years is abuse and down right wrong. What happen to those days of fun, running around naked , biting everything insight, climbing stair and getting hurt, peeing on the carpet or just plain act of watching television all the time ? My childhood days were certainly better than what's been described in the article. I know of a nieces of mine ( 1 and 3 years old ) going for some meditation class or something of that sort. What happens is when they are asleep, certain teaching materials will be played or spoken to them. According to the people , the sub conscious mind is supposed to working and bla bla. I have no idea if it's proven. My cousin and her husband is all exited because according to them, the children are smarter. Well, anything that makes them sleep at night. One thing though, 1 year old kid ? Please spare some mercy for these kids.

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